Who we are
Whole Self Coaching comprises a team of coaches, trained in the Co-active method. We hail from a variety of fields in senior roles, ranging from corporate sectors to the arts.
Every coach is beautifully unique. As are you.
We’ll help you connect with several coaches; to find the one that suits you best.
What coaching is
A safe space to explore what a life lived more fully is. We believe that all clients are naturally creative, resourceful and whole. There’s nothing to ‘fix’ and coaches skilfully tap into your natural creativity to help you discover new insights.
In the western lifestyle, we spend lots of time doing and doing and doing….and then doing a bit more. We’re human doings using our left brain. However, we’re also human beings and part of the coaching work is engaging the right brain thinking. What comes up can often surprise you, but it never feels scary.
Clients often first come to us for support in furthering their career, growing their business or managing their teams. They quickly discover that coaching the whole self can be so much more; improving your personal relationships, health and how you show up in the world authentically.
What coaching absolutely is not
It’s NOT Mentoring - We often hear clients say “my last coach told me to…..” That isn’t coaching! A coach cannot tell you what to do specifically in your life. If they did, their suggestions would likely be things you’ve already tried or thought of, and aren’t likely to add much value.
In fact, the coach’s personal background has no real bearing on your life; it’s your life and yours alone.
It’s NOT Easy - Your coach will always be your champion, but sometimes that means holding up a mirror to your BS and asking tough questions. Growth doesn’t happen in your comfort zone, after all.
It’s NOT Therapy - This is a specialist field of its own. Of course there are some overlaps, as your personal journey is likely to have an impact on your current decisions. But your coach is not a therapist.
Why do we do it?
The world is crying out for more authenticity and connection, especially in our leaders. When your decisions come from your inner knowing, you get to be more of you, and the impact on the world is greater.
All of our coaches have been coached themselves and can testify to the lasting improvements it’s made in their lives and the importance of the work.
For a coach; it’s deeply rewarding to witness something shift in a client. You might call it an “A-ha!” moment or it could be the result of implementing something new over time. Whatever shows up; it’s fascinating to see clients enjoy richer, more fulfilling, lives.
Meet the Team
Vince Mathews
Founder
Vince launched Whole Self Coaching in 2025, after training in the Co-active coaching method.
Many Lives
“Variety is the spice of life” for Vince and he has worked professionally in the public and private sectors in senior management roles. He was director in a restaurant consultancy business for 8 years, before leaving the corporate life to enjoy a career in acting and performing.
In addition to performing, he also runs a small theatre company.
Family Matters
Vince is hugely proud of his family and three grandchildren.
Why Coaching for Vince
Coaching has helped me personally through some of the toughest moments of my life. I wouldn’t be here without it.
It keeps my decisions aligned with my own values, but also gives me a beautiful space to be playful and creative in my mission.
In a world where people are increasingly feeling disconnected and alone, the work to help people connect with their whole self is more important than ever.
Connect with us
Coaching starts with connection. So drop us a short message here or even email direct to:
connection@wholeselfcoaching.co.uk
There’ll be no intense sales calls or emails, just a simple message back to answer your question.
You will always determine the level of connection, so you can progress at your own pace.